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Children of divorce are of all ages; from elementary children, to teenage children, to adult children. But they all have one thing in common; they know the pain of divorce.
Children of Divorce can have many social as well as behavior problems. Many Children are not sure of who to trust, or who it is safe to talk to after a divorce. Many experts say you should stay married for you children, but I do not agree. And many say you should wait until your kids are older before you divorce. I do not agree with this theory either. Children can and will recover from divorce. The following video shows that happiness does return after divorce. The brother and sister in this video are children of divorce and as you can see they are completely happy.
The Honorable Judge Gomery of Canada stated, “Hatred is not an emotion that comes naturally to a child. It has to be taught. A parent who would teach a child to hate the other parent represents a grave and persistent danger to the mental and emotional health of that child.” ![]() Children need Happiness in there lives just like we do. Children also learn from their parents about how relationships look and feel. If all they hear is yelling and fighting, or in some cases no communication at all between parents, the silence can be just as destructive. Know one can say, this is good for your children. Children start to learn at a very young age. Children are also much smarter than adults give them credit for. Have you heard your child tell you things like?
“Dad we just want you to be happy” or “It is really nice to see you smile again” Children can feel when their parents are unhappy. And the sad part is parents are so wrapped up in just trying to get through another day of Hell, they miss the children’s pain altogether. So the child suffers alone. Children of Divorce need attention. They don’t want to hear about your ex’s. They don’t want to hear about how ugly the other parent is, They want you to find happiness and share it with them. If that is a new job, or a new hair cut, your child just wants you to smile again, Please understand children need to see you happy, they don’t want all of this pain they have been through to be for nothing. So take the next 20 days and have a new child You will love the new child you find. Children of divorce want their parents to be happy. |
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